What makes you different?

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Which branch of engineering is better: ECE or Civil?

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Im not transphobic/homophobic but, am I in the wrong for being uncomfortable when a trans person comes into the lockeroom? I just dont want them to stare at me while Im changing.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Why is my coworker suddenly being so mean towards then being nice like nothing happened? She is nice with everyone but me.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Agree?

I’m a 25 year old teacher teaching at boys school & I have colleagues younger than me. I caught one of my students telling her he wanted her as his teacher instead & it hurt my feelings. They compliment her a lot. It makes me jealous. What do I do?

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

What are some ten strong legal evidences that are needed for a divorce?

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

What do most wives fantasize about?

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

Without experiments, is life worth it.

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

What is the most heartbreaking thing your child has told you?

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

Did another parent ever tell you something about your child that you didn’t know?

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

Flipping two atoms in LSD turned it into a powerful treatment for damaged brain circuits - PsyPost

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

What do you think of the Quora group "It's Ok to Be White" for people who are proud of being white?

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

Republicans, why do you support Kamala Harris over Donald Trump?

So, what actually makes us all different?

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

Is using tech to track or monitor your partner’s activities a sign of love, insecurity, or control?

So, keep on experimenting.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

What makes you YOU.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

Can you make it?

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

What if he’d come outside?

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.